Data-point gathering

[magistrate]

Because I'm curious, and because I really want to see how much of a range exists in the answers. I don't need long rambles, though I'll read them; first-thing-you-think-of answers are great, too.

Try answering without looking at anyone else's answers, first.


1) How would you define a close/deep friendship?

2) What markers do you take to indicate that you're in a close/deep friendship?

3) What would you do in order to form a close/deep friendship?


[ETA] Part of the reason I'm curious is that I imagine it's radically different for a lot of people. I was struck by a quote in this book I'm reading: "Mary is so confused by the world of emotion that she could be your best friend and never know it." And it got me thinking that how we telegraph friendship is not always obvious.

Comments

[cris_jones_smith]

1) Someone I can talk to without having to worry about them judging me. Someone that can be honest with me without worrying I'm going to get offended or pissed off.
2) See the above. If I can tell them something personal, that probably means I'm close to them.
3) I think it just happens. Nothing special. Sometimes people click. It just talks talking and getting to know someone.